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Mexico City just outlawed gay conversion therapy. These cities have not
Mexico City, already progressive, takes more steps to protect its LGBT+ citizens.
30 July, 2020
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- Mexico City has just issued a ban protecting its citizens from "conversion therapy."
- "Conversion therapy" is a loose term covering a wide variety of "treatments" which claim to alter a person's sexuality.
- With the law, Mexico City joins a small club of countries, provinces, and municipalities with such a law.
<p>In a win for LGBT+ individuals, the regional congress of Mexico City passed legislation banning conversion therapy throughout its <a href="https://www.out.com/politics/2020/7/29/mexico-city-has-outlawed-conversion-therapy" target="_blank">jurisdiction</a>. The vote took place <a href="https://www.reuters.com/article/us-mexico-lgbtq/mexico-city-outlaws-gay-conversion-therapy-idUSKCN24P2LL" target="_blank">virtually</a> due to the current pandemic, and the bill enjoyed multi-party support. A medical practitioner who provides conversion therapy will now face five years of jail time for doing so, and more if they attempt the treatments on a <a href="https://www.them.us/story/mexico-city-bans-conversion-therapy" target="_blank">minor</a>. </p><p>The legislation is being celebrated as a win for the LGBT+ community. With it, Mexico City joins a handful of countries, states, provinces, and municipalities that have explicitly banned these dangerous procedures. </p>
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The ashes in the dustbin of history, examined.
<p>Conversion therapy refers to a wide array of procedures that ostensibly alter a person's sexual orientation. These can include anything from trying to "pray the gay away" to aversion therapies that border torture. Variations of the idea of curing homosexuality have been around since the dawn of modern psychology. The amount of acceptance that the concept enjoyed waxed and waned as our understanding of sexuality evolved.</p><p>Sigmund Freud famously declared homosexuality "nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation" in a letter to the mother of a gay man who sought his help in "curing" her son. In the same letter, Freud expressed doubt that any therapy could reliably alter human sexuality in a meaningful <a href="http://www.openculture.com/2014/09/freud-letter-on-homosexuality.html" target="_blank">way</a>. </p><p>His daughter, an influential psychologist in her own right, felt differently, suggesting that such a treatment could exist and describing homosexual tendencies in terms of neurotic illness. In the United States, several psychologists argued that such behavior could be "cured" through a variety of procedures, such as electroshock treatment, lobotomy, aversive conditioning, and confrontational therapy often indistinguishable from <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conversion_therapy#United_States" target="_blank">abuse</a>. </p><p>After <a href="https://bigthink.com/politics-current-affairs/5-times-rioting-worked" target="_blank">Stonewall </a>and the rise of modern views of human sexuality, most psychologists and their associations stopped considering homosexuality as a disease. </p><p>In the 21<sup>st</sup> century, the American Psychological Association asked its members to "avoid misrepresenting the efficacy of sexual orientation change efforts by promoting or promising change in sexual orientation when providing assistance to individuals distressed by their own or others' sexual orientation." Similar actions have taken place around the world. Recently, the United Nations' expert on Sexual Orientation and Gender Identify called for a global ban on the <a href="https://news.un.org/en/story/2020/06/1066652" target="_blank">practice</a>. </p><p>Despite these efforts and others like them, some forms of conversion therapy continue to exist, and a few people still preach its benefits.</p><p>This is rather dangerous. While no widely accepted study demonstrates the effectiveness of conversion therapy, credible studies show its adverse outcomes. People who undergo these discredited treatments are at a higher risk of suicide, anxiety, depression, and <a href="https://doi.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0735-7028.33.3.249" target="_blank">drug use</a>. </p>Who isn’t as progressive as Mexico City yet? Where is progress being made?
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<p>The above map shows the various places around the world where conversion therapy is banned, legal, or being challenged. Many of the locations shown in yellow are making significant progress towards a ban of this harmful group of procedures. As you might expect, the details of the laws in effect vary by location. Some of the prohibitions are <em>de facto </em>rather than explicit, some only apply to medical professionals carrying out these procedures, and some are enforced not by law but by the mutual agreement of psychologists.</p><p>The United Kingdom has taken substantial steps towards a ban, with the NHS and the major psychological and counseling associations of the UK condemning the practice. The government has promised to study the issue in detail before moving forward with legislation that could end the practice. Several organizations <a href="https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2020/06/30/religion-lgbt-homophobia-conversion-therapy-ozanne-foundation-islam-christianity-judaism/" target="_blank">continue to advocate</a> for law immediately settling the matter.</p><p>In India, Prince <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manvendra_Singh_Gohil" target="_blank">Manvendra Singh Gohil</a> revealed that he had endured <a href="https://www.out.com/news/2020/7/27/gay-indian-prince-was-subjected-electroshock-conversion-therapy" target="_blank">electroshock therapy</a> as a young man after coming out to his less than supportive parents. Since coming out in 2006, he has worked with various charities to help LGBT+ individuals and even <a href="https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/asia/prince-manvendra-singh-gohil-palace-lgbt-people-a8146491.html" target="_blank">opened up his palace grounds</a> for those who were forced out of their families for who they are. His opening up comes alongside protests in India against the <a href="https://theconversation.com/lgbtq-conversion-therapy-in-india-how-it-began-and-why-it-persists-today-140316" target="_blank">practice</a>. <br> <br> In the United States, discussions of a ban have taken place in many areas not currently protected by one. LGBT+ organizations in those states without bans are <a href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-involved/trevor-advocacy/50-bills-50-states/about-conversion-therapy/" target="_blank">actively campaigning for them</a><a href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-involved/trevor-advocacy/50-bills-50-states/about-conversion-therapy/" target="_blank"></a>. The state of Minnesota attempted to pass legislation to that effect last year, but that portion of the bill was cut out. Activists have taken to the local level as they prepare to try <a href="https://mspmag.com/arts-and-culture/the-fight-to-ban-conversion-therapy-in-minnesota/" target="_blank">again</a>. </p><p>Mexico City's ban is entirely in character for a city with a reputation of a protector of LGBT+ rights. In 2009, it was the first place in Mexico to legalize gay marriage and institute a variety of legal <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20100102102038/http:/www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34514521/ns/world_news" target="_blank">equalities</a>. Gay Rights have been slower to gain respect in the rest of <a href="https://www.borderreport.com/regions/mexico/baja-california-state-congress-says-no-to-gay-marriage/" target="_blank">Mexico</a>, though its Supreme Court stands ready to protect the rights of LGBT+ individuals in states that have dragged their feet on adopting federal law equalizing <a href="https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/mexicos-legal-battle-to-establish-same-sex-marriage-may-finally-be-coming-to-a-head/" target="_blank">marriage</a>. </p>
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LGBTQ+ community sees spike in first-time depression in wake of coronavirus
Gender and sexual minority populations are experiencing rising anxiety and depression rates during the pandemic.
13 July, 2020
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- Anxiety and depression rates are spiking in the LGBTQ+ community, and especially in individuals who hadn't struggled with those issues in the past.
- Overall, depression increased by an average PHQ-9 score of 1.21 and anxiety increased by an average GAD-7 score of 3.11.
- The researchers recommended that health care providers check in with LGBTQ+ patients about stress and screen for mood and anxiety disorders—even among those with no prior history of anxiety or depression.
<p>In the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic, anxiety and depression rates are spiking in the LGBTQ+ community, especially in individuals who hadn't struggled with those issues in the past, say researchers. </p><p>"What I was hearing at the beginning of the pandemic was that people who were already anxious were more anxious than ever, and we didn't find that," <a href="https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2020-07-06/coronavirus-ups-anxiety-depression-in-the-lgbtq-community" target="_blank">said researcher Annesa Flentje</a>, an assistant professor in the University of California, San Francisco School of Nursing, in a university press release. "In looking at averages across the LGBTQ+ population, we found the greatest changes in anxiety were among people who weren't anxious prior to the pandemic." </p>
Study findings
<p>For the study, <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11606-020-05970-4" target="_blank">published in the Journal of General Internal Medicine</a><em>, </em>Flentje and her team evaluated survey responses from nearly 2,300 individuals who identified as being in the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) community. Most of the participants were white, while nearly 19 percent identified as a racial or ethnic minority. Multiple genders were represented with cisgender women (27.2 percent) and men (24.6 percent) making up a majority of the participants. Sixty-three percent had been assigned female at birth. For the most part, participants identified their sexual orientations as queer (40.3 percent), gay (36.5 percent), and bisexual (30.3 percent).</p><p>The JGIM study participants were recruited from the 18,000-participant <a href="https://pridestudy.org/" target="_blank">PRIDE Study</a> (Population Research in Identity and Disparities for Equality), which is the first large-scale, long-term national study focusing on American adults who identify as LGBTQ+. It conducts annual questionnaires to understand factors related to health and disease in this population. </p><p>Participants filled out an annual questionnaire (starting in June 2019) and a COVID-19 impact survey this past spring. Flentje noted that on an individual level, some people may not have experienced a big change in anxiety or depression levels, but for others there was. Overall, depression increased by a <a href="https://patient.info/doctor/patient-health-questionnaire-phq-9" target="_blank">PHQ-9 score</a> of 1.21, putting it at 8.31 on average. Anxiety went up by a <a href="https://www.mdcalc.com/gad-7-general-anxiety-disorder-7" target="_blank">GAD-7</a> score of 3.11 to an average of 8.89. Interestingly, the average PHQ-9 scores for those who screened positive for depression at the first 2019 survey decreased by 1.08. Those who screened negative for depression saw their PHQ-9 scores increase by 2.17 on average. As for anxiety, researchers detected no GAD-7 change among the study participants who screened positive for anxiety in the first survey, but did see an overall increase of 3.93 among those who had initially been evaluated as negative for the disorder. </p>Risks among gender and sexual minorities
<span style="display:block;position:relative;padding-top:56.25%;" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="fc3fd1ae68b77bbbf58a6995638d6d65"><iframe type="lazy-iframe" data-runner-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/EnUqDjCqg0A?rel=0" width="100%" height="auto" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" style="position:absolute;top:0;left:0;width:100%;height:100%;"></iframe></span><p>The LGBTQ+ community is a vulnerable population to mental health concerns because of their fear of stigmatization and previous discriminatory experiences.</p> <p>Previous research by the Human Rights Campaign has found "that LGBTQ Americans are more likely than the <a href="https://medicalxpress.com/tags/general+population/" target="_blank">general population</a> to live in poverty and lack access to adequate medical care, paid <a href="https://medicalxpress.com/tags/medical+leave/" target="_blank">medical leave</a>, and basic necessities during the pandemic," said researcher Tari Hanneman, director of the health and aging program at the campaign.</p> <p>"Therefore, it is not surprising to see this increase in anxiety and depression among this population," Hanneman said in the release. "This study highlights the need for <a href="https://medicalxpress.com/tags/health+care+professionals/" target="_blank">health care professionals</a> to support, affirm and provide <a href="https://medicalxpress.com/tags/critical+care/" target="_blank">critical care</a> for the LGBTQ community to manage and maintain their mental health, as well as their physical health, during this pandemic."</p>What should health care providers do?
<p>The authors of the study recommend that health care providers check in with LGBTQ+ patients about stress and screen for mood and anxiety disorders in members of that community—even among those with no prior history of anxiety or depression.</p><p>As cases of COVID-19 continue to mount, the sustained social distancing, potential isolation, economic precariousness, and personal illness, grief, and loss are bound to have increased and varied impacts on mental health. Effective treatments may include individual therapy and medications as well as more large-scale coronavirus support programs like peer-led groups and mindfulness practices. </p><p>"It will be important to find out what happens over time and to identify who is most at risk, so we can be sure to roll out public health interventions to support the mental health of our communities in the best and most effective ways," said Flentje.</p>
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8 lesser-known orientations along the sexuality spectrum
Sexuality is fluid and it's important that people get to define it for themselves.
25 April, 2020
- Sexuality is fluid and ever-changing, and our understanding of it has come a long way since the invention of the Kinsey Scale in the 1940's.
- Defining your own sexuality is important as it is a uniquely personal experience.
- While creating labels for yourself can help you better understand your orientation and build connections along your sexual journey, it's important not to place labels on others. Be open to hearing how they see themselves and respectful enough to refer to them on those terms.
<p>Sexuality can be a big part of your identity. It can encompass nearly every aspect of your being, including your actions, your attitude, your behaviors, and your feelings. It can impact the way you experience sexual attraction (if you do) and it can alter your preferences around sexual and romantic relationships. </p><p><strong>Why is sexuality thought of as a spectrum? </strong></p><p>A spectrum, in this context, is a tool that can help us better understand the fluidity of sexuality, among other things. The <a href="https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/kinsey-scale.php" target="_blank">Kinsey Scale</a>, perhaps one of the most well-known spectrum scales, was created in 1948 by Alfred Kinsey, founder of the Kinsey Institute. </p><p>The scale allows people at "zero" to report as exclusively heterosexual, and people at the opposite end (six) to report as exclusively homosexual - with ratings 1-5 being people who report varying levels of attraction or sexual activity with either sex. There is also a "category X" designated for those who report no sexual reactions or relations. </p><p>This scale was the first of it's kind and it challenged the perceptions of sexuality and really, was a starting point for where we are today. </p><p><strong>Modern-day sexuality and labels...</strong></p><p>Over time, we have learned more and more about the sexuality spectrum and it's become more and more normalized to place yourself really anywhere along the spectrum. It's safe to say we have come a very long way since the 1940s when the Kinsey Scale was first created. </p><p>Sexuality is fluid, it is ever-changing and extremely personal - defining your own sexuality is what's important, not placing these labels on others for them. It's also extremely normal to be overwhelmed by all the different words we now have to describe various sexual and romantic orientations, attractions, and behaviors. </p><p>Along with the ever-growing spectrum, it's our responsibility as human beings to adapt and expand the language we use to describe our own (and other people's) sexual preferences. While these "labels" can help us better understand ourselves, they are by no means set in stone.</p><ul class="ee-ul"></ul>
Defining lesser-known orientations along the spectrum
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<p><em>"Many persons do not want to believe that there are gradations in these matters from one to the other extreme."</em> - <a href="https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/kinsey-scale.php" target="_blank">Sexual Behavior of the Human Female</a>, 1953.</p><p>It's safe (and wonderful) to say that we have come a long way since the 1950's. Sexuality and sexual orientation have become more widely talked about, accepted, and even respected. There are still many areas of the world where people are punished for simply existing as who they are and loving who they love, but the best thing we can do as a society is to adapt and evolve with the spectrum. </p><p>In the spirit of adapting and growing, here is a breakdown of some lesser-known orientations along the sexuality spectrum. </p><p><strong>Autosexual and/or Autoromantic</strong> </p><p>Autosexuality is the idea of being sexually attracted to yourself. Autoromantic describes the notion of being in a romantic relationship with yourself. </p><p>Autosexuality can mean being turned on by your own look, being excited to spend time alone rather than with a significant other, and/or masturbating to the idea of yourself.</p><p>Dr. Jess O'Reilly, a sex and relationship expert, suggests that we may all be <a href="https://globalnews.ca/news/5022369/what-is-autosexuality/" target="_blank">"a shade of autosexual,"</a> with some people using it to define themselves and others shying away from it due to body shaming. </p><p>While autosexuality is often used synonymously with narcissism, Dr. O'Reilly believes otherwise: "[The core erotic feeling] is a feeling you require to even consider having sex, and for many of us, our core erotic feeling involves feeling sexy and feeling desired. You might have an outside source who conveys that desire or it may even be within yourself." </p><p>Dr. O'Reilly <a href="https://globalnews.ca/news/5022369/what-is-autosexuality/" target="_blank">goes on to question</a>: "Can't we give ourselves permission to feel arousal in response to our own body?" </p><p><strong>Demisexual (compared to Graysexual and Asexual)</strong></p><p>To be <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/demisexual#asexual-allosexual-spectrum" target="_blank">demisexual</a> is to experience sexual attraction in very specific situations, most often with people you have an emotional connection with. </p><p>Someone who identifies as demisexual can typically only experience and thrive in sexual attraction once an emotional bond has been formed. That bond doesn't necessarily have to be explained as love or romance, but it can be friendship (even a platonic friendship) that allows them to feel a sexual or romantic attraction. </p><p>While many people <em>choose </em>to only have sexual relations with people we feel connected to, demisexual people aren't making that choice, but rather, they <em>need </em>that bond to even begin to feel sexually attracted to someone. </p><p>And yet, having an emotional bond with someone doesn't mean people who identify as demisexual will develop a sexual attraction to that person—just as heterosexual men are attracted to women but may not find every single woman they meet to be attractive. </p><p><a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/demisexual#demisexual-vs-graysexual" target="_blank">Graysexual</a>, on the other hand, is often considered as the "gray area" between asexual (a term used to describe not having any sexual attraction to others) and allosexual (the opposite of asexual; also called sexual). </p><p>People who identify as graysexual don't explicitly or exclusively identify with being asexual or allosexual. They do experience sexual attraction or desire on some level but perhaps not the same intensity as people on either end of the asexual-allosexual line. </p><p><strong>Pansexual, Pomosexual and Spectrasexual</strong></p><p>Pansexual is a term that describes individuals who experience sexual, romantic, and/or emotional attraction to any person regardless of that person's gender, sex, or sexual orientation. </p><p>Pomosexual is more of a term than an identity. It's used to describe individuals who reject sexuality labels or who simply don't identify with any one of them. </p><p>Spectrasexuality is a term used to describe people who are able to feel romantic or physical attraction/emotional connections with people of multiple or various sexual orientations and genders, but not necessarily all of them (or any of them). </p><p>These terms are often used interchangeably, but it's important to point out the differences. Pansexual is by far the most commonly used word of the bunch and is more geared towards not seeing the label and seeing the person instead, thus being able to build romantic and sexual relationships with anyone, regardless of their orientation. </p><p>People who identify as spectrasexual, on the other hand, are able to be attracted to multiple or various genders or sexual orientations, but still may have certain preferences.</p>
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How is diversity being weaponized?
Striving for diversity is honorable — but the focus should settle on something much deeper than phenotypic traits.
23 February, 2020
- In efforts to achieve diversity, whether within workplace teams or elsewhere, leaders often focus on variation of identities regarding race, gender, sexual orientation, and physicality.
- Evolutionary biologist Heather Heying urges that these efforts be taken a step further to focus on diversity of viewpoints and socioeconomic status — two forms of identity that are less apparent without thoughtful conversation.
- Achieving diversity in these ways adds varying life experiences and opinions that enrich office or team culture and provide more innovative solutions.
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Is asexuality psychological or biological?
Or is "the hidden orientation" more complex than that?
07 February, 2020
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- The term "asexuality" refers to someone who does not feel sexual attraction to others and/or has a lack of interest in sex. According to a UK survey on sexuality, 1% of the population identifies as asexual, although some researchers suspect it's even more.
- While research on asexuality is limited right now, there has recently been a surge of interest in asexuality with Brock University Professor Anthony Bogaert and Stanford scholar Karli Cerankowski making strides in research on this topic.
- Studies show people are learning more about the sexual orientation at a younger age than previous generations, making research and discussion about different sexualities more important than ever before.
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What is asexuality?
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<p>The concept of sexual orientation has long since been a topic of heated discussion and debate, perhaps because sexuality as a whole is such a complex and oftentimes fluid part of the human experience.</p><p>The simplest explanation that research has given to define asexuality is this: Asexuality can be defined as a lack of sexual attraction to others and/or the lack of interest in sex. Individuals who identify as asexual also sometimes refer to themselves as "ace" (or "aces") for short.</p><p><strong>Where does the term "asexuality" come from?</strong> </p><p>If you were to look at the word "asexual" from an English literature point of view, it could quite literally be translated as "not sexual." Adding the prefix "a-" to a word simply means "not" or "without." </p><p>Karl-Maria Kertbeny, a <a href="https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20170315-the-invention-of-heterosexuality" target="_blank">Hungarian journalist</a>, was the first known person to use the terms "heterosexual" and "homosexual" to describe sexual experiences. During this time, he also used the word "monosexual" to describe people who don't engage in sexual activity with other people, only themselves, through masturbation. </p><p>While this wasn't the first time the term "asexual" was used, this was the beginning of understanding individuals who don't feel sexual desire towards other people. The first large publication that referenced "asexuals" was in 1972 when author Lisa Orlando published "The Asexual Manifesto" and described it as being "not the last word on asexuality, but only the beginning." </p><p>While this publication was hard to find prior to 2019, there has since been <a href="https://app.box.com/s/p7ngvv3iueaj0hk7xadkwd92af2zx4yz" target="_blank">an online document</a> with the publication of this book which was uploaded (with the author's permission) by the <a href="https://library.duke.edu/rubenstein/findingaids/alfa/" target="_blank">Atlanta Lesbian Feminist Alliance</a>.</p><p>There is a lot of variation when it comes to asexuality: while some asexual people might experience a very real romantic connection in their relationships, some others may not. If you identify as someone who is without romantic attachment to others, this is defined as being aromantic.</p><p>Some asexual people can see a physical attraction to another person but simply don't make the connection between physical attraction and sexual desire. People who identify as "grey" oftentimes go between being aromantic and romantic, depending on the situation and the person they are with, and other asexuals are able to develop a romantic attachment to a partner after developing an emotional connection. </p><p>According to <a href="https://www.thetrevorproject.org/" target="_blank">The Trevor Project</a>, a nationwide initiative that is dedicated to providing support and awareness to LGBTQ+ youth, one of the most agreed upon things in the asexual community is that "love does not equal sex." </p><p>In 2001, the <a href="https://www.asexuality.org/" target="_blank">Asexual Visibility and Education Network</a> (AVEN) was created by David Jay - this was the first place that gave a proper "definition" to the term asexuality by asking for emails from asexual people. The site is now a network that's dedicated to supporting the asexual community and spreading knowledge and education to those who are interested in learning more about it.</p><span style="display:block;position:relative;padding-top:56.25%;" class="rm-shortcode" data-rm-shortcode-id="3be0e9e2454465493af87cf45e62adcd"><iframe type="lazy-iframe" data-runner-src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/lMhix4nr_0g?rel=0" width="100%" height="auto" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" style="position:absolute;top:0;left:0;width:100%;height:100%;"></iframe></span>
The research on asexuality is just beginning...
<p>Is sexual orientation psychological, biological...or both?</p><p>The word "sex" describes the means you have for biological reproduction - the sex organs you have (or don't have) define you as either male or female. "Gender" on the other hand, describes a psychological identity. Both sex and gender are important parts of a person's identity but they don't tell us everything we need to know about our sexual orientation...that is something far more complex. </p><p><a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7560933" target="_blank">Research studies</a> have shown that there are structural differences in the hypothalamus that relate to our sexual identities. The hypothalamus is the part of the brain that links the nervous system to the endocrine system, which is responsible for sexual development and function, among other things.</p><p>As with many parts of the human condition, our sexual orientation rarely fits into the box that society has designated for its definition.</p><p>Asexuality is a recognized sexual orientation that is separate from celibacy and/or abstinence because asexuality is a spectrum with a lot of diversity. Where celibacy or abstinence are typically choices that are made because of certain behaviors or are motivated by a person's spiritual/religious beliefs, being asexual is, as many people claim, just who they are.</p><p><span></span>According to Brock University <a href="https://brocku.ca/applied-health-sciences/health-sciences/faculty-research/faculty-directory/anthony-f-bogaert-phd/" target="_blank">Professor Anthony Bogaert</a> (the author of <a href="https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781442201019/Understanding-Asexuality" target="_blank">Understanding Asexuality</a>), <em>"the study of asexuality, as it contrasts so clearly with sexuality, also holds up a lens and reveals clues to the mystery of sexuality." </em></p><p>Despite the lack of research on asexuality, there has been quite a lot of research on what determines our sexual orientation.</p><p>In fact, in 2004, Bogaert was one of the first scholars to conduct <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/8220138_Asexuality_Prevalence_and_Associated_Factors_in_a_National_Probability_Sample" target="_blank">a study that exclusively focused on asexuality</a> - he analyzed a previous study on sexuality (which garnered responses of 18,000 UK citizens). During his analysis, he found that 1% of the people in the study agreed with the statement "I have never felt sexually attracted to anyone at all."</p><div class="rm-shortcode amazon-assets-widget" data-rm-shortcode-id="U8CV9X1581064004" contenteditable="false">
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<p>Many people believe that true research into asexuality is just beginning and that the people who are best qualified to lead the way are people like <a href="https://news.stanford.edu/2015/02/23/asexuality-studies-scholar-022315/" target="_blank">Stanford scholar Karli Cerankowski</a>, who made headlines with her dissertation about the ways in which sexuality is misunderstood from pop culture to historical references.<br></p><p><em>"Only the human mind invents categories and tries to force facts into separated pigeon-holes. The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects. The sooner we learn this (concerning sexual behaviors), the sooner we shall reach a sound understanding of the realities of sex" -</em> <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1447861/" target="_blank">Kinsey, Pomeroy, and Martin</a></p><p>While the fluidity of sexuality is something that hasn't been well researched so far, <a href="https://nobaproject.com/modules/the-psychology-of-human-sexuality" target="_blank">studies show</a> that young people are recognizing their sexual orientation earlier than generations before them - making the discussion (and research) of different sexualities more important than ever before.</p>
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