Youth Today

How much should we connect to understand them?

As people who want to reach out and help the youth and understand them. How much understanding do we want to learn? Is there a limit? Counselors and youth pastors read books that tells us that we need to understand their continuing changing culture. But because it is changing how involved should we get in becoming one with them and will we lose focus of what we wanted to do in the beginning. The pop-culture that they follow may not be correct morally but do we go down to their level to understand their situations and be able to sympathizes with them or should we stick to our morals and try feel what they feel from a different position they are in. In youth one day your tactic in connecting with them would work but next day it may fail and a new plan will be needed to gain the connection that was there before.

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Malcolm Gladwell teaches "Get over yourself and get to work" for Big Think Edge.

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  • At Big Think Edge, Malcolm Gladwell teaches how to check your inner critic and get clear on what failure is.
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Mind & Brain
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  • Although the human brain matures in size during adolescence, important developments within the prefrontal cortex and other regions still take pace well into one's 20s.
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Does believing in true love make people act like jerks?

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Sex & Relationships
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Archeologists had been doubtful since no such ship had ever been found.

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Surprising Science
  • In 450 BCE, Greek historian Herodotus described a barge that's never been found.
  • When the ancient port of Thonis-Heracleion was discovered, some 70 sunken ships were found resting in its waters.
  • One boat, Ship 17, uncannily matches the Herodotus' description.
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