Proust's Guide to Waking Up and Feeling Properly Alive
Proust’s lesson is, "I lay in bed and by looking at things properly, and I felt properly alive."
Alain de Botton was born in Zurich, Switzerland in 1969 and now lives in London. He is a writer of essayistic books that have been described as a 'philosophy of everyday life.' He’s written on love, travel, architecture and literature. His books have been bestsellers in 30 countries. Alain also started and helps to run a school in London called The School of Life, dedicated to a new vision of education. Alain's latest book is titled Religion for Atheists and is published in the Netherlands, Italy, Korea, Turkey and Brazil in 2011 and in the UK, US and other territories in 2012.
Alain started writing at a young age. His first book, Essays in Love [titled On Love in the US], was published when he was twenty-three.
One of the most wonderful things about Proust is he is a details person. He recognizes levels of sensitivity that most of us may register, but we don’t give any time to. Proust’s novel opens up with the description of someone falling asleep. It’s something we do every night, but do we ever pay attention to it? No. And yet, Proust spends a good 50 pages describing how our personalities fragment and eventually disintegrate as we fall asleep. But that process of falling asleep, which we normally devote one sentence to, is actually a miraculous process.
He follows this up with a 100-page description of waking up, the miracle, the complexity, the reassembling of the self that every day takes place under that bland, cliché, “I woke up.” That’s only the beginning of a constant process of attending to the minor, and in a way, giving us a feeling of what it means to be properly alive.
Some people say, "I went white water rafting in Canada and I felt alive" or "I went to Thailand and I felt alive." Proust’s lesson is, "I lay in bed and by looking at things properly, and I felt properly alive."
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