That is really a hard question to answer. There are so many complexities involved in trying to answer this question. Personally there are so many nuances to the person I am. I am simple, yet complex, intelligent yet dumb sometimes, in the words of Langston Hughes I am beautiful and ugly too. I think every person has that same sort of thing with trying to determine who they are. A lot of people never realize who they truly are but when you realize the person you are not going to be and just learn to be comfortable with yourself then you can become comfortable with understanding and appreciating your flaws.