With the right partner or group we can do better together. We can co-create, crowdsource, cross-consult, peer2peer collaborate. And, when we share these methods and success stories we can adapt each others' ideas for our our work, cause or social lives. When we bring out each others' best sides (temperament and talents) in a situation we are more likely to like each other.Now that's a self-fulfilling prophecy that's more fruitful than spiraling down into conflict (after bringing out the worst sides in each other or allowing absolute power to corrupt absolutely). This approach is pragmatic as much as it is satisfying