Description: You think you're Job? Get off it.

Question: What advice do you have for today’s youth?

Transcript: Well one of the things that I find that I have to say to young people – which is a strange sort of conundrum – is I have to tell them that they are of value. They suffer not from high self-esteem. They suffer, by and large, from low self-esteem. They tend to believe they are the result of this materialistic, mendacious culture. When I am sitting down with young couples who are getting married, I always ask them, “Would you like your marriage to resemble that of your parents?” Invariably they say, “No. Thank you very much. I love my parents. Presumably they love each other, but we hope for something better than this.” So there is a sense that they recognize the limitations of the world in which they are. They tend to over-emphasize their own limitations. And part of my job is to say, “You can aspire to be more than the sum total of your parts. There’s more to you than just a brain, or just a body, or a set of marketable skills.” And I find, rather than trying to deflate their ego, part of my job is to try to raise it up so that they can understand that they are, in the biblical phrase, “created a little lower than the angels”, having been given great power to represent God and ______ the world. That we are images made in God’s image. That there are great things that we can be, and do, and aspire to – that they should do that, especially those who are going to raise families. If you’re not going to do it for yourself, do it for your children for heaven’s sakes! Let them blossom and flourish.

Question: Collectively, what should we be doing?

Transcript: there’s a certain degree of intellectual humility that has to be introduced here. “Oh, things are not going the way they should. Oh woe is me!” Come on! Get off it! Who are you? You think you’re Job? Job dealt with this a long time ago. Of course, most of them have not heard of Job so I introduce them to Job. Part of my job is to try to connect them with . . . to our rich inheritance, our rich history. But the great line, for me, is a line of St. Paul, which I use in nearly all of the baccalaureate sermons that I give – and I give a lot of these across the country. In Romans 12, St. Paul yells and _____ almost literally off the page, “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind!” And I say, “Those of you who are privileged to be members of a great university like this, and who have had your minds renewed – even if you didn’t do much about the renewing yourself – simply being here has been a part of this process – you have an opportunity and an obligation to be agents of transformation out there . . . to make things better than they are, to make a difference, to find your place and to exercise that. It may take you a few years. It may take you the rest of your life! But as John Bunyon points out in “Pilgrim’s Progress”, that’s a life worth living – a life in pursuit of some worthwhile, ultimate, and maybe even unobtainable goal – you should do that!” And some of them say, “Oh, I couldn’t possibly do that.” And of course, my reply, “Why couldn’t you? What talent do you lack? What opportunity is missing? What skills do you think you need in order to do that?” And when they start thinking about the talents, the skills that they have, and the things that they might need, they begin actually to think, “Well what difference might I make? How could I do something about this?” Now surely, that comes with more authority from someone like Bill Gates, who says, “Look. I’m the richest man in the world and I’m screwed up. I didn’t know what I was doing, so surely you can out and find something.” What I was interested in when Bill Gates spoke at Harvard, that not many of the students with whom I spoke said that they wanted to be the richest man in the world. They wanted to find out, given what I have – my talents, my time, my opportunity – what can I do? What can I do to make myself a happier, better person? What can I do to make my world a happier, better place? And in most cases, for most people, it’s a relatively small enterprise. At commencement, it’s customary to say, “You’re going to change the world.” They’re not going to change the world. Let’s be realistic about this. These kids are not going to go out and turn this tired, old world upside down. But there may be certain aspects of your own life that you can attend to, and certain relationships that you can cultivate and encourage . . . certain places where you can make a difference. The trick is to find those places and to do it! And I think people are searching for that, looking for that. That’s what we call looking for meaning, looking for wholeness. Most people experience the brokenness of the world. They wanna do something about it. And my job is to encourage them to do something about it.

Recorded on: 6/12/07