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All through the day… I, me mine, I me mine, I me mine… 

That George Harrison song on the Beatles’ last album pretty much sums it up. They recorded it in 1970, and 47 years later, our egos seem to be running just as rampant as ever. While the unchecked ego might be popular at parties, it can get us into all kinds of trouble. This is not breaking news. Over 2000 years ago an Indian prince sat under a tree and thought about the problem of self. His insights and solutions became what we now call Buddhism. And a century ago in Vienna, Sigmund Freud came at the same issue from a somewhat different angle, giving us psychotherapy. 

My guest today, Mark Epstein, MD, is a psychotherapist and author who combines both approaches to help his patients and readers live with their demanding egos. His new book is Advice Not Given: A Guide to Getting Over Yourself

Surprise conversation-starter clips in this episode

Drew Ramsey on diet and depression, Manoush Zomorodi on the wandering mind

Mark Epstein Quote: JG: I think the fear for the ambitious person is that if you let go of the neurotic suffering, then you lose the ambition.   ME: That’s right . . . That’s the ego’s fear. So if you let go of that fear you’re also letting go of a little bit of the ego.   And lo and behold: you’re still there.

 

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