August 11

Extreme Biology

Saturday’s Big Idea

Today's Big Idea: Super Sex

Let's talk about sex. Ahem. As humans, we're pretty terrible at that. Jesse Bering is a notable exception. Paul Bloom has called Bering "the Hunter S. Thompson of science writing," and you don't need to look much further than the title of Bering's book to see why. It is called Why is the Penis Shaped Like That? And Other Reflections on Being Human

If you suspect Bering has an appetite for the salacious, you guessed right. And yet, while the subjects Bering chooses to write about are by their very definition sensational, he argues that "often the most titillating topics are uniquely able to raise deeper philosophical questions and to bring much more substantial issues to the surface."

After reading his book, we agree. Today we welcome Bering to Big Think and are pleased to present him along with other experts who have fundamentally challenged the way we think and talk about human sexuality. 

Let's list a few of them. Dan Savage is a gay sex columnist who is the architect of the "It Get's Better" campaign who has devoted his career to helping gay and straight people alike grapple with their biological hangups. Savage introduced his readers, including us, to writers such as Christopher Ryan, whose book Sex at Dawn caught our interest and resulted in one of Big Think's most popular videos of 2011, How to Make Love Like a Caveman.

Some of the conclusions these thinkers have come to -- the rejection of monogamy, for instance -- are deeply controversial. But these ideas are more than just the stuff of controversy. They represents a broad approach for our discourse on sexuality, one that is daring and driven by intellectual curiosity. 

So what is Super Sex? Bering provides the best definition: “I found myself...gravitating increasingly toward the world of science, a world in which nothing was sacred, no question too absurd or off-limits...” 

  1. 1 Masturbation: "An Evolutionary Ma...
  2. 2 Penises, Primates and the study o...
  3. 3 How to Make Love Like a Caveman
  4. 4 Braingasm: How Porn "Shuts Down" ...
   
  1. Masturbation: "An Evolutionary Magic Trick"

    Masturbation: "An Evolutionary Magic Trick"

    Jesse Bering tells Big Think that humans have an "advanced social cognitive system" that allows us to "play back scenes in our heads, like a dirty movie theater." This cognitive ability makes us unique among animals, and it is a mechanism we use very often.   

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  2. Penises, Primates and the study of Human Sexuality: A Q&A with Jesse Bering

    Penises, Primates and the study of Human Sexuality: A Q&A with Jesse Bering

    Jesse Bering is the author of the new book, "Why is the Penis Shaped Like that?: And Other ...

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  3. How to Make Love Like a Caveman

    How to Make Love Like a Caveman

    What was prehistoric human sex like? Most of us conjure "the hackneyed image of the caveman, dragging a dazed woman by her hair with one hand, a club in the other." Psychologist Christopher Ryan says this image is mistaken in every detail.

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  4. Braingasm: How Porn "Shuts Down" Women's Brains

    Braingasm: How Porn "Shuts Down" Women's Brains

    What really goes on in a brain-on-porn? A recent study conducted at the University of Groningen Medical Center came to a surprising conclusion.

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