Dalia Mogahed: This might sound funny, but I don’t think co-existence is the right goal. I think it’s too small a goal. And I think part of the problem is that our goals are sometimes too small.
Now with people of different faiths clashing, sometimes it seems like a very ambitious goal just to co-exist. But I believe if we can make our goal instead active cooperation between diverse groups of people where there is actually a benefit in cooperating for everyone involved, there is an incentive for . that people feel that they are being enriched by interacting, and learning from others who are different from them. Only then will we actually have peace.
When our goal is the absence of the negative, any small misunderstanding will turn into a crisis.
Case in point is like the cartoon controversy. That might look like a very small incident from the outside, but it exploded into a global crisis. And I believe it’s because there isn’t enough; not co-existence; but there isn’t enough active cooperation between groups.
And when we have that interdependence of actually benefiting by cooperating, not just co-existing, it becomes much more likely that we’ll forgive these small things when they happen, but that they won’t happen to begin with--because we will have an incentive to better understand each other.
But I believe we live--the cliché is “the global village”; but it’s really true. And in the global village, there really is no other choice. It’s either clash or active co-existence or active cooperation. And if we don’t go for that positive, active engagement with one another, I think clash is just the inevitable outcome.
Recorded on: July 3, 2007.
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Kirk Boyer on January 16, 2008, 10:50 PM
How would you respond if I said there are certain things that shouldn't need forgiving in the first place? How can I, understanding that others will see this situation differently, work with them to change that goal?
The example of the comic (and teddy bear in sudan!) fit this situation. I can sort of intellectually understand why there might be a clash in the first place, based on the beliefs of people involved, but thus far all arguments I've seen justifying the reactions that brought about the clash have been amazingly weak. To me, the reactions in these situations are perfectly parallel to a situation where a group of misguided college upperclassmen brutally beat some new student who accidentally misspelled the name of their beloved institution. One can certainly see the possibility that they would revere their institution to the extent that they are offended that someone could not quite know even how to express its name in writing. But is it okay to accept their viewpoint and just try to work with it toward some end? Or even less than that, to coexist with it? Why is having a belief like that (or like believing that it is bad to depict the prophet mohammed) justified in the first place?
Can you help me understand? I feel convinced that you won't be able to, but that feeling is something I know it is very, very important to question.
Kirk Boyer on January 17, 2008, 3:50 AM
How would you respond if I said there are certain things that shouldn’t need forgiving in the first place? How can I, understanding that others will see this situation differently, work with them to change that goal?
The example of the comic (and teddy bear in sudan!) fit this situation. I can sort of intellectually understand why there might be a clash in the first place, based on the beliefs of people involved, but thus far all arguments I’ve seen justifying the reactions that brought about the clash have been amazingly weak. To me, the reactions in these situations are perfectly parallel to a situation where a group of misguided college upperclassmen brutally beat some new student who accidentally misspelled the name of their beloved institution. One can certainly see the possibility that they would revere their institution to the extent that they are offended that someone could not quite know even how to express its name in writing. But is it okay to accept their viewpoint and just try to work with it toward some end? Or even less than that, to coexist with it? Why is having a belief like that (or like believing that it is bad to depict the prophet mohammed) justified in the first place?
Can you help me understand? I feel convinced that you won’t be able to, but that feeling is something I know it is very, very important to question.
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