As people who want to reach out and help the youth and understand them. How much understanding do we want to learn? Is there a limit? Counselors and youth pastors read books that tells us that we need to understand their continuing changing culture. But because it is changing how involved should we get in becoming one with them and will we lose focus of what we wanted to do in the beginning. The pop-culture that they follow may not be correct morally but do we go down to their level to understand their situations and be able to sympathizes with them or should we stick to our morals and try feel what they feel from a different position they are in. In youth one day your tactic in connecting with them would work but next day it may fail and a new plan will be needed to gain the connection that was there before.