I would like to be still an influence on my children's lives with out invading them , now that they are  adults . I would prefer to not wait till I am on my death bed spitting out wisdom to them therefore now today i must create an email or blog so I can start expressing my ideas to them , to read or not to read but have a package so when I am gone they can't say what did mom think about this .

My own mother left me fast ,when she was 67 and I was in my twenties and after being aa family reunion,and listening to people still speak about my mother i thought .................that woman did have a lot to say and it was good .

Hence, now I think I will do it ,write my ideas out and share them before its too late.