We don't mention things about our selves, out of common sense and self-preservation. Defining one self with a label, has potential for others to judge. Who wants to be judged?
So you simply don't volunteer information that is important to you. And you realize, on some level, that it may not be reasonably understood by others.
We are many "things", "labels" every day, at any given moment. So why limit our selves to a label or single path in any instance?
You are You...which is very cool, as fully realized!