is it an instant connection felt between two people, unfolding and growing due to their tender nurture? is it destiny, are we meant to be?   when you are in love,  can other prospects compare with what you already have? is it a beautiful, unearthly phenomenon or a straightforward issue, brought about by pragmatic necessity?   such a huge part of all our lives and how many understand the origins of the ever-shifting beast we call love?  is it possible to be understood?  what makes someone fall in love?   what gives birth to some of the most important relationships we will ever experience, the most painful, the most exciting, the most.......