As Christians we would want to connect with people on a more personal level to develop a friendship and a connection with that person. But we must ask ourselves how much should we connect with them on their basis and how much is too much when it comes to contextualize with unsaved people. Should we learn and become their culture or should they learn about the Christian way of life and try to live life as we try to do on a daily basis. Where do we draw the line of when to stop? Obviously both sides can not be that extreme and both sides should give in some and meet at a middle ground but where is the middle ground and is it a stable middle or can it be shafted based on where you are and the people you are trying to reach.